Being a good kisser is a seduction superpower. Unfortunately, every dude thinks he’s a fantastic kisser, but the reality is only 22% of men are considered awesome kissers. That means 78% of men are deemed bad at kissing, according to women. I’m going to have a make-out tutorial where I’ll be covering kissing don’ts, pro tips, and subtle signs she’s ready for you to plant one on her sassy lips.
Makeout mistakes
- Nasty mouth. Nobody wants to make out with a dude with yellow, stained, and nasty teeth. Also, funky halitosis is a deal breaker. If you smell like you ate a turd burger for breakfast, there’s no chance she will return for seconds. You need to make sure your breath is fresh. Ensure you see the dentist every six months, have good oral hygiene, including flossing, and upgrade your toothbrush from a manual. Tao Clean is the world’s cleanest toothbrush and the one I recommend. Get yours for over 64% off with code ALPHA65
- Tongue jamming. Do not jam your tongue down her throat. Kissing is a seductive dance. Plus, if you’re jamming your tongue, she can’t breathe, and it’s disgusting.
- Spit overload. Too much saliva is a turn-off. Your mouth should not be super wet and moist. It also should not be dry, so make sure you hydrate.
- Asking for a kiss. Just kiss her! If she’s giving all the signs, the worst thing that you can do is stall or wait. If she doesn’t want one, she’ll push you away.
- Not being into it. Kiss with your entire body.
- Being too aggressive. If you’re grinding your stubble into her chin or face, this will make you a bad kisser. Facial hair can be irritating to her supple and soft, sexy skin. Kissing should be about teasing and taking little breaks.
- Having a nasty stash. You should not have hair that’s covering your lips. Make sure you let the lips out of the hair jungle. She needs to be able to see, feel, and get sexy with them.
Pro tips
- Slow down. Don’t rush it, and don’t frantically kiss. It’s about tempo and pausing.
- Be vocal. Express how much you’re enjoying it. It’s not just about the action of kissing. Let her know that she’s sexy.
- Touch her face. Gently take her face and pull her to you. A little back-of-the-neck action while touching her hair automatically makes you an amazing kisser. It involves more than just your lips and tongue. Think of kissing as a dance. Depauses build excitement and anticipation. They make her crave you like sushi.
- Pull her hair. I’m not saying to be aggressive when you’re doing it, but take a little grab.
- Have variation + adaptability. You need to vary your style and change it up. Keep her guessing. Also, build sexy anticipation. Adjust your style to her. If she likes something a little more freaky or weird, go with it, but you need to read cues and body language. If she really gets into something, keep doing it.
Signs she’s ready to pounce on you
- She keeps looking at your lips
- She keeps touching you
- She keeps licking her lips
- She keeps messing with her hair
- She starts fixing her clothes
- She moves closer to you
- She wants to hold your hand
- She’s nervous and fidgety
- She prolongs the date
- She invites you to go to her house
- Her pupils dilate
