Your competition is coming for you and your job. They’re coming for your money and spicy senorita, so you need every advantage. I will share some habits that will give you a competitive advantage over 99% of other men.
How to develop a competitive advantage in life
- Adaptability. You need to be able to go with the flow and adapt. Whether it’s new technology or otherwise, you need an advantage over everybody else because we are comfort creatures and like to stay the same. You need to embrace change and have an adaptive mentality.
- Financial literacy. One of the downsides of growing up poor like I did is that I needed a financial role model to teach me about money. I learned independently and can tell you from experience that being not poor is better. But to get there, you must understand how money works and use that knowledge to leverage yourself to become financially free and have FU money.
- Sexual discipline. 99% of guys think or worry about satisfying the urge; however, 1% of people can focus. This game-changer for productivity & success will set you apart from everybody else. But it’s not that they don’t have sex or relations; they’re just not spending precious brain bandwidth to try to facilitate it. They focus on channeling productivity and building their business, life, and success. The more success you have, the more other stuff you’ll get because people are automatically attracted to those who are disciplined and successful.
- Emotional intelligence + mental toughness. These two go hand-in-hand but will break them down. Emotional intelligence is understanding how other people feel or being able to connect with them on a deeper level. It’s also understanding and being connected to how you’re feeling. Mental toughness is having the ability to weather the storm and push through adversity. To be mentally strong, you need emotional intelligence, which is the ability to understand yourself emotionally and connect with others’ emotions. Once you can do this, you form deeper friendships and connect quickly. Therapy gave me a competitive advantage in this department. I understood myself better and was given tools to deal with issues. I was also given permission to forgive myself because I harbored a lot of anger and resentment for past situations. Better Help makes therapy more affordable and accessible. You deserve to be happy! Get 10% off your 1st month of Better Help therapy and get matched with a therapist who will listen and help.
- Communication skills. Having f*cking extraordinary communication skills is a game-changer and will give you a competitive advantage over all other guys. You can convey your point clearly and concisely, speak eloquently & carry a conversation including small talk, and make people feel special. You can also be a seducer who can make the person you’re talking to feel confident, beautiful, and like the most interesting person. Seducers make others feel successful, so learning to be seductive in your communication is a superpower and will truly set you apart.
- Network. If you learn to be a great networker, you’ll make more friends and contacts that can help you in the future and open doors of opportunity. 99% of other dudes need to be networking.
- Likeability. This is a skill that only some possess. Still, if you can develop and work on it, you will have an advantage because you’ll be optimistic, encouraging, and uplifting. Compliments will instantly put you ahead of other people.
- Personal presentation & packaging. The three areas include grooming, style, and fitness. If you’re grooming is straight, your style is sharp, and your body is taken care of, you’re ahead of 99.9% of other guys. Have pride in your personal packaging and branding to have a competitive advantage.
