I’m going to discuss the secret to making somebody regret not dating you, not being your friend, or never dating you. I started thinking about some of my ex-girlfriends the other day and wondered what they would think about me now. I have not had the greatest relationships; I would have divorced if I had married many of these women. So this got me thinking about them, their life, and what it takes to make somebody genuinely regret not being with you.
Sweet revenge for not choosing you
Be wildly unabashedly successful in every aspect of your life. You can either achieve or let life happen to you and bend you over. People that are indeed next level, the 1%, other people that don’t worry about what other people are doing. They are laser-focused on making themselves the best version of themselves they can possibly be. This includes financial stability, but it’s not just about money.
Take care of yourself physically. What I like to think about is all of my girlfriends and their husbands or boyfriends. What do they look like? What is their body like? Are they fat and out of shape, or are they in shape? If you want to make somebody regret not being with you, have a great body. I’m not saying you need a six-pack, chiseled abs, but you must take care of yourself physically.
Take care of yourself mentally. One aspect that keeps men from truly unlocking their potential is the need to be mentally strong, including dealing with issues. You need to be stable emotionally and mentally to have people regret not being with you.
Dress well. Men who dress well are in the 1%. They understand that they need to take care of themselves stylistically, along with taking care of themselves physically. When other people meet you, what you look like determines whether they will date, hire, or give you opportunities. Focus on looking good and taking care of yourself to have an advantage over 99.99% of other guys.
Take care of grooming. Your personal branding is your calling card, so put in the time to look and smell good. Being put together is the key to realizing your full potential. The guys that are paying attention will steal the girl. They’ll also steal the money and opportunities. You need to have the best package you possibly can.
Don’t worry about other people. Do not allow other people’s opinions of you to dictate your personal feelings about yourself. If you’re worried about other people or seeking validation, you’ll never be truly confident and successful.
Be confident and composed. When you understand the value you bring to the world daily, it’s game over, and you win. All the people who didn’t give you a chance or respect you will come crawling back because they’ll want jobs, date you, make out with you, or be your friend because you’re a successful person, and success makes everything better. If you’re truly serious about being the best version of yourself, be confident, kind, and friendly.
