Confidence is why I started the alpha m. YouTube channel. I know what feeling insecure and not good about yourself feels like. I also know the power of confidence; when you find it, it’s amazing what happens in every aspect of your life. It’s impossible to be confident if you’re riddled with insecurities.
Now, that doesn’t mean if you’re confident, you’ll always be super secure in everything you do. Of course not. We’re always going to have insecurities. But at the core of who you are, you can achieve anything if you are a confident person. Today I want to share some personal stories and steps that have moved the confidence needle for me.
Confidence cheat codes
- Fitness. Nothing will change your life or your self-esteem and confidence like taking care of yourself physically. Exercise will make your mind stronger and allow you to endure hardships. It allows you to be confident and self-assured.
- Bad things. Whether it’s alcohol, tobacco, p***, or anything else that you know that you’re doing that is bad for yourself, it will affect your self-esteem and confidence. Deep down, you know that you shouldn’t be doing it. But when you quit, you finally get it under control, and you will feel incredibly confident and strong. I challenge you to give up your bad thing.
- Junk size. If you’re embarrassed or not confident about the size of Big Al, you can do something about it. Using Bathmate made a humongous difference in the size of my junk and also my confidence. I also last longer, and I’m thicker. It’s been unbelievable in terms of my confidence. Check out the video where I explain how it works and how to use it.
- Finances. If you get your financial house in order, you will boost your confidence. Not being able to pay your bills affects your mindset and literally everything else. The first time I didn’t have to think about money, everything in my life improved. If you’re struggling financially, do what you can to get out of credit card debt, get a second job, and do what you need to do to get onto the path of financial freedom. Your life will be less stressful.
- Style. There’s no excuse for dressing like sh!t. When you start dressing better, not only will people respect you more, but you will respect yourself more. You will look more confident.
- Therapists. You need to deal with issues that you’ve never dealt with. Go to therapy and face & fight them. Your confidence can go through the roof, as mine did. Therapists will support you and give you tools to look at issues. You’ll get a third-party perspective.
- Friends. Who you surround yourself with is indicative of how you feel about yourself. If you surround yourself with losers, you will feel like a loser. Ditch the losers, mooches, and toxic people because they don’t have your best interest in mind. You will feel much more confident and amazing. Unfortunately, we can get addicted to these toxic people, but when you identify someone who is bringing you down rather than lifting you up, protect yourself.
