My videos aim to help you, and I want to discuss an important topic that could change your life. With age comes wisdom, and I grew up in a very different time when life was simpler. For instance, we did not have the internet.
I want to talk about sex because I see too many people having casual sex and being nonchalant about it. I want to help open your eyes and help you stop doing some potentially devastating and self-destructive things. Sex is a big deal, even though it’s been made to sound like it is not a big deal.
If you sleep with many people, that is a big deal, too. If you’re going to have it, you need to make sure you’re protected because you don’t want a kid or STDs. If a woman says she’s on the pill, don’t believe the hype. You are responsible for protecting yourself. Abstinence is the only way to eliminate the risk. But you can reduce it by wearing a condom. You don’t want STDs, which are on the rise.
Also, don’t be a slut, and don’t date a slut. Why would you want to be with somebody who’s been with a lot of people? Having a lot of past sex partners does not make you a good catch. It makes you void of a moral compass.
Keep in mind that sex is not what you see in p^rn. It’s not the way that you should act towards another person, and it’s not the way that somebody will respond to you. It’s probably not how you’re built, and it can distort your perception of yourself for the rest of your life. It can start a lifetime of insecurity. Just remember that all men are not created equal in the size of their Big Al.
Another reason not to watch p^rn is that it is bad for confidence and lowers self-esteem. There are better uses of your time, and it can alter the dopamine response and cause you to feel guilty. If you presently watch p^rn and quit, your relationship can improve, you can be a better partner, and your perception of beauty is redefined. Get your addiction under control by limiting your exposure, join a support group, or get an app that blocks it.
If you are in a committed relationship, do not cheat. Cheating is unacceptable, and the grass is not greener on the other side. When trust is broken, the relationship is over. Cheating will interfere with other aspects of your relationship and can even rear its head years later. And if she cheats on you, you’ll never trust her again.
Also, never allow somebody to use sex as a weapon or as a reward. That’s not healthy.
The relationship probably will not work if your sex drives don’t match. You need to be on the same page as your partner. Sure, the longer you stay with somebody, the frequency will slow down, and the initial butterflies will subside. However, there’s nothing wrong with the intensity and excitement disappearing or being greatly reduced. It’s the natural evolution of a relationship. Also, the older you get, the more your needs change. Keep that in mind.
Don’t be fooled by beauty; beauty is a depreciating asset. As we age, we all get less attractive, so you’ll be disappointed if you focus heavily on someone’s appearance. Ensure you find someone you can connect with and are intimate with. You need to be with someone where you don’t feel the need to put on an act or a show. You don’t need to live up to some arbitrary standards, but this does not mean you should get lazy.
Speaking of that, don’t get lazy in the relationship. In the early days, you’ll do anything to make her feel beautiful and want to be intimate with you. The relationship will fail if you stop engaging and making her feel special. You must do the little things to facilitate the action and make her feel beautiful. Make sure you engage in foreplay, dirty talk, and more.
Regarding intimacy, it’s nobody’s business you choose to love or where you stick your weiner as long it’s legal. There’s nothing wrong with who you love, and it’s nobody’s business. Don’t let anybody tell you differently. It’s not up to them; it’s up to you. You need a happy and healthy life, but it starts with not taking sex for granted.
