High-quality women are getting harder to find these days. I don’t know if it’s social media drawing attention to low self-esteem and poor behavior. If you want to date a disaster, that’s your preference. But for me, I want a woman I respect and value and want to be around.
I don’t want a woman who’s just hot because that’s a dime a dozen. If you want to attract a higher-quality woman, you can’t be a little boy or do things she won’t accept. Higher-quality women will not put up with a man who is a disaster or has low self-esteem. These turn women off.
Do NOT be a man who has any of these features:
- Lacking drive or motivation. If she has her act together, she will also expect her man to have his together.
- Insecure. If you’re always begging, sneaking, or snooping, she won’t deal with that. She’s not going to waste her time worrying about your insecurities. It’s not a good look, whether you’re snooping or arrogant.
- Immature. She wants you to be mature emotionally, mentally, and physically. She doesn’t want to be with a little boy.
- Self-destructive. If you’re going out and getting sloppy drunk, abusing drugs, or being self-destructive, this is a deal breaker.
- Disrespectful. A high-quality woman will not allow somebody to treat them poorly or talk down to them.
- Unattractive. If you want to be with a high-caliber woman, you need to look good, which includes working out, dressing well, and grooming properly. You should not have nose hair or unibrow, your hair should be cool and sexy, and your breath should not be funky. You can’t have stinky pits or funky balls, either.
- Baby mama drama. She doesn’t want to deal with your crazy ex or you’re crazy ex-girlfriend.
- Bad reputation. If you or somebody notorious for sleeping around or mistreating people, she won’t want you. High-quality women don’t want a player or somebody who’s a disaster.
- Dumb. Dumb isn’t cute or desirable.
- Pessimistic. Being negative and dragging down people is not what people want to be around.
- Insensitive. It’s okay to cry. It’s okay to get choked up at a movie.
- Not conscientious. To attract a high-quality woman, be a conscientious partner in the bedroom. It’s not a race, and she doesn’t need you to be hung like a mythical beast, but she needs you to make her feel beautiful. She needs you to build sexual anticipation and attraction before you get to the bedroom. Foreplay is important. Make sure you take care of her first, which means going downtown to visit Brenda.
