Attraction isn’t luck. It is also not just about looks. It’s about self-respect and discipline. It’s a set of unspoken rules that most magnetic men follow even though they don’t talk about them.
These men walk into a room and own it. When they speak, people listen. When they move, people notice. These men don’t chase; they attract. Today, I’m going to reveal precisely how they do it.
Ten unwritten rules to make you dangerously attractive
- Don’t chase. Attract by not seeking validation. Understand the value you bring.
- Make eye contact. Understand the power of eye contact without coming across as creepy. Don’t appear shifty or insecure by maintaining eye contact and never breaking gaze. Staring someone down is creepy. Instead, hold gaze for about 3 seconds and then break, looking left and right. Don’t look up and down.
- Know when to listen. A lot of men are uncomfortable with silence, so they try to fill in the gaps with talking about themselves, this-or-that, and nonsense. Know when to shut up. An attractive guy says what he has to say, and then actively listens not just with his ears. He masters nonverbal communication — he scans and reads body language.
- Dress like it matters. Don’t try to be the flashiest, but make sure your clothes fit well, your colors complement each other, and you dress with intention. Your style is your resume and speaks volumes before you ever do. Have a signature style or a distinctive accessory. You could even have a signature scent. Make sure it’s not too overpowering, however. Pete & Pedro REBEL is the best fragrance on the market for under $50. Grab a refillable travel sprayer so you can take your fragrance to the gym and on the go.
- Don’t overshare. In the world of social media, where people are trying to impress, be more reserved. Don’t throw everything out there. Let people chase and ask questions. Trying to impress can actually repel people.
- Make people feel seen. How you make other people think about themselves can make you extremely attractive. Ask genuine questions and genuinely show interest in others. Encourage others to share their thoughts and open up, which makes them feel more connected to you. Combine engaged listening with body language and open-ended questions to elevate attractiveness to the next level.
- Be well-groomed. Grooming encompasses everything from your hair and beard to your brows, hands, nails, feet, and genital area. Grooming is a great equalizer. You can wear a great outfit, but if you’re not paying attention to your grooming, you’re missing out on opportunities.
- Keep your cool under pressure. Maintain being calm and collected without freaking out. There’s nothing sexier than somebody cool under pressure.
- Do things on purpose. Being dangerously attractive means you do things on purpose: the way that you talk, stand, move, and more. Have a higher purpose. Don’t be fidgety. Be a motivator who is a doer and not a talker. Many people in the world engage in trash-talking. A sexy and attractive man lets his actions speak louder and takes action to be the man that he knows he can be.
- Unbutton three buttons. Show a little more man cleavage to look sexy and cool. Maximize your god-given attractiveness.
